Many parents focus attention on their children’s grades and extracurricular activities, such as by making sure kids study, do their homework, and get to tuitions. But all too often, we forget to put time and effort into nurturing another component of child success and development – one that is just as important, and perhaps even more essential, than good grades, awards, and trophies – being a good person.
Although, it’s not just about making your child a better person, its also making it sure that YOU are a role model for them and treat them with respect.
Recently, we came across a video where a child was held as a ‘qaidi’ and was mistreated by his mother severely!
پنڈی بھٹیاں میں ماں نے اپنے بیٹے پر ظلم کی انتہا کر دی
یقین نہیں آ رہا کہ ایک ماں ایسا کر سکتی ہے
ہمارا معاشرہ نامعلوم مقام کی طرف بہت تیزی سے گامزن ہے
اللہ پاک ہی ہے ہم سب پر رحم کرے ،آمین pic.twitter.com/a5ZMxSX37W
— شـاہد فـاضل (@Shahid_Faazal) March 11, 2019
We don’t have a lot of details regarding the video. People used Twitter to express their emotions after the video went viral!
Some people called her a monster
— Ahmer Malik (@ahmermaliq) March 12, 2019
What’s your take on this?
Exactly, may be mother is suffering from some mental illness or probably due to extreme depression… This seems not natural.
— Dr Junaid M Alam (@DrJunaidMAlam) March 12, 2019
Some people demanded that she should be put behind the bars
Arrest her . She might be mentally ill. Section her please
— Raana Dar (@RaanaDar) March 12, 2019
She must be suffering from mental illness, stated one user
she must be a psychopath, no mother can do this ruthless act
— neo (@ajeebsa_) March 12, 2019
One user stated that she may be a stepmother
soteli maa b ho sakti hyy
— usman masood (@usmaanmasood18) March 12, 2019
It’s just sad that parents sometimes forget to use the right tactics to discipline their kids and behave like this! There’s a difference between discipline and ‘ziyadti’ and if this mother isn’t mentally unstable, she’s doing her child wrong and should actually be put behind bars or at least this matter should be taken into consideration!
In Pakistan sadly we don’t have any child protection system and that’s why parents tend to be unfair to kids. There should be child protection services that help kids. So when a child is deemed to be at immediate risk, the CPS worker can take the child from their home and place them with a foster family. There are many ways to discipline kids, but this video proves that her’s was a bad idea.
What do you all think should be the action taken against this? Let us know if you have anything more to add to this story!